This oak leaf is a symbol all can relate to.
The Mighty Oak - The Family Tree
This memorial pin has been well received. Those who have lost a relative, as well as those who have lost a part of their community, see it as a tender remembrance of their loved one.
Recall pastimes in the obituary while offering someone their memorial pin, they will continue to wear the lapel pin after the funeral.
"Next time you go to the stadium, take Dad with you."
They will come to see wearing their Oaktags pin as having Dad along, wherever they go.
When someone compliments the oak leaf, it starts a conversation that leads to you and how thoughtful you were to have offered Oaktags to the family tree, in their grief.
When a family suffers a loss, they aren't looking for the establishment with the best ball point pen, calendar, or even merchandise.
They are looking for a professional who cares.
The family gives you their loved one, to care for.
Offer them their loved one in return, in the form of a lapel pin.
Give them a simple leaf, with deep meaning; an 'oak tag'.
Remembering the one who fell from the family tree.
It’s pretty easy to identify someone who has had a mishap and broken a bone. We see support all around them, assisting them while they heal. It may be a cast, a sling a pair of crutches, maybe a wheelchair; but, it’s visually present and reminds us to be gentler with those recovering from an event in which healing is needed. We are innately kinder and go out of our way to aid that person, knowing they aren’t fully themselves. Looking at them often makes us feel grateful for our normalcy.
Unfortunately, not all brokenness is visual. When one is in despair, lonely with grief, it doesn’t always manifest itself in a way that is recognized by others. Oftentimes, they seem perfectly normal, with nothing to make them appear anything different is going on behind their facade. They may be a tad grumpy, short-fused and distant; but they may also appear pleasant, warm, even comical.
While one tries to move through their grief, it is a labor to feel normal while walking through a huge void, as if the hole your heart has sucked you in and it is no longer in you, but you in it. It can be confusing to see the world swirling about you, going on as if nothing has changed. But it has. And what are you to do with that? You’ve already placed an ad in the paper announcing the change. That obituary explained you had a loss; didn’t it? Why doesn’t anybody ‘get it’? Why can’t they be patient with me, kinder, more understanding? The truth is, not everyone read that obituary. Those that did, paid their condolence and for the most part, have continued on with their lives, laying aside the reality of your continued struggle of oneness.
Does this sound like your life? Do you wish your broken heart had ‘a cast’ that people could see? It might be the answer we’ve been looking for, since widows stopped wearing black veils and widowers a black armband. The Oaktags memorial pin is the modern version of these emblems. Designed to honor ‘the mighty oak’ this oak leaf is worn to remember the one who fell from the family tree. The sighting of this pin could open conversation on a subject many have regarded as taboo; to speak of the dead. To hear their name and share a story, can bring healing to a broken heart.
Maybe, one day, we can look at someone wearing an Oaktags pin and express empathy for them and feel grateful for our normalcy.
You have an opportunity to make the post-death experience easier for those you serve. Join the other establishments across the US who are identifying those who have someone on their heart and mind.
An elegant emblem.
A whisper that life is changed.
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An Added Value to Your Excellent Service