Our Origins
A Leaf Found on the Sidewalk
A Leaf Found on the Sidewalk
A Leaf Found on the Sidewalk
After admiring tiny Pin Oak leaves scattered across the sidewalk after a storm, this one caught my eye. It looks like a hug!
Becomes a Pin
A Leaf Found on the Sidewalk
A Leaf Found on the Sidewalk
It was important for this quiet remembrance to be lovely for a woman, but also handsome, for a man to enjoy wearing.
With a Sentimental Poem
A Leaf Found on the Sidewalk
With a Sentimental Poem
Reading this poem creates the heart connection to our sense of belonging to something bigger. Forever, we are family.
Express Your Heart
For those times when you can't be present,
show them you are with them in spirit.
Buy a Condolence Pack now
to have one handy for your future use.
This expression of sympathy not only
lasts longer than cut flowers,
it is cherished for years.
The Origins of the Oaktags Leaf Pin
Ruthann Disotell, Founder, CEO
It would be really neat to say Ruthann designed this leaf pin, but truth be told, a Creator far more divine accomplished that. Ruthann was just the one who discovered the fallen leaf on a sidewalk in Lambertville, New Jersey. When she picked it up, she thought it looked like a hug. Then it hit her. This is the emblem she had been waiting a dozen years for, something everyone could relate to - the Mighty Oak, the Family Tree.
With 50 years in funeral service, Ruthann has seen traditions change. Years ago, black veils and armbands identified the mourners in a funeral home, but times have seen these emblems fade away. The one place where identification can still be found is at a Jewish service, where black kriah mourning ribbons are worn by the immediate family.
Ruthann thought, "Wouldn't it be nice if every family were identified somehow? It should have no religious connotation, no ethnic identity and be something which would be lovely for a woman to wear but handsome enough a man would feel comfortable wearing it."
The leaf was transformed into a memorial lapel pin families are honored to wear. The antique gold finish of the Oaktags memorial pin makes it a subtle marker for others to discover.
Signage by the guest register offers, those waiting to sign, information about this important aide put in place to help them locate those to whom they wish to offer condolence.
The leaf pin is a treasured keepsake, worn every day, on family occasions or special outings.
Ruthann is a graduate of Dallas Institute of Mortuary Science and has devoted her career to designing environments, products and services for the care and comfort of the grieving; focusing on the relationships we share.
Ruthann Brown Disotell is a NJ Funeral Director/Embalmer, a Life Celebrant, and Founder of Oaktags.